Women were not all created equal and the same goes for their nether regions! When it comes to what feels good and what doesn't in oral sex; it really does depend on the woman whose thighs you are lucky enough to be invited between! But fear not my hungry and eager little friend-all is not lost-techniques to blow her mind do exist!

The most important advice I can give you is to take your time. Rushing through it will not just do nothing in terms of rocking her world, but you may also be inadvertently sending her the message that this disinterest in being down below has to do with her. There is no doubt that going down on a woman is an extremely intimate act and it is not uncommon for a woman to have some insecurities about her taste and smell, so if you are rushing outta there like a man from a burning building, this may just make her feel undesirable which will pretty much ruin the rest of your play time. These insecurities can be easily taken care of with a few well placed mmm's! Be vocal about letting her know that you like the way she tastes and that you are enjoying being down there.

Next important bit of information is that oral sex should involve more than just your mouth. I'm sure this has conjured up images of a finger pounding away like a tiny jack-hammer, but while fingering is definitely encouraged; I am actually referring to using your hands to caress and tease her body before you even make it to her special spot. By running your fingers lightly along her breasts, tummy and thighs you are actually helping to peak her sensitivity and get her primed for the main event. So make sure to let your hands do the talking when your mouth is, well... full.

Now that you have teased and tickled your way down to her beautiful pussy, you will see that pleasuring it isn't rocket science but more a matter of being aware. Start with something as simple as a kiss; spread her slowly and place your lips on her and feel the way her body responds to your touch. Begin to lick lightly up and down along her opening and take note of her breathing and movements as this is how you will know what she's enjoying and what she isn't. Move on to her clit and lick it ever so gently, up and down and side to side and then slide your tongue back down along her slit again. If you feel that she needs something a little more aggressive, you can try "fucking her" with your tongue. With your tongue as stiff as you can make it, push it in and out of her hole as quickly and deeply as you can-the nerve endings in her vagina (which mainly occupy the area around the opening) will thank you!

When she is writhing around beneath your lips and obviously longing for more; it's time to focus your attention on the clitoris. Use the tip of your tongue and slide it up and down or side to side, slowly increasing the pressure and feel her start to go wild at the mercy of your mouth! Her back will arch, her pelvis will press hard against you and her thighs may even close in around you-sure signs that she is loving it and getting closer to orgasm. Now all you have to do is keep up the good work! Continue with whatever you are doing and enjoy the one time when repetition is actually a good thing and soon she will be screaming to the high heavens as you make her cum good and hard.

So, be patient, be diligent and bon appetit!